The REAL secret to manifesting
The Real Secret to Manifesting
Working as a Law of Attraction Life Coach is something I am really passionate about. I love to help people attract their desires and over the many years of working with the Law of Attraction, I have read many books, watched countless videos and have carried out an enormous amount of research on this subject. I first discovered the Law of Attraction and started using it when I was 14 or 15 years old. Back then, I recognised within myself a strong sense of knowing. I knew that if I asked for something (from Source) that it would manifest and I have used it many times over the years successfully.
So when The Secret hit the bookshelves in 2006, it was a concept I was already familiar with. I was intrigued to read the book and happy that Manifesting or Cosmic Ordering was something that other people were experiencing too. The Secret is probably the most widely read book on the subject and there are other excellent reads that I highly recommend including:
The Science of Getting Rich – Wallace D. Wattles (1910)
Think and Grow Rich – Napoleon Hill (1937)
You Can Heal Your Life – Louise Hay (1984)
Super Attractor – Gabrielle Bernstein (2019)
Abraham Hicks is a master guru in her field who brilliantly and intelligently explains in her many books and videos how to create what you desire using the Law of Attraction. She explains it so eloquently and answers all the questions on how to get the most out of manifesting.
There are many other social media gurus with varying techniques who can guide you towards effective manifestation, and if you follow their tips and put in consistent daily effort, you will see great results.
With all the many manifesting techniques out there, I’ve come to realise that aligning with your desires isn’t easy. In simple terms, we are told to: DREAM, BELIEVE, ACHIEVE.
Dream or visualise what you want - creating vision boards, writing down what you want and reading it regularly
Believe—know that what you desire is on its way to you (which is the hardest yet most important step, as it is the very key to manifesting) and then notice the signs. You need to believe that what you desire is on its way to you in order to attract your desired outcome and then allow what you want to manifest to come to you.
Achieve, as your desires manifest.
Not forgetting to surrender what you are manifesting for! As it is important to let go to attract your desired outcome.
It sounds easy, but it takes a lot of practice and persistence. Even then, negative thoughts can creep in—Is it going to happen? When will it happen? How will it happen? I’ve been doing this for a while, is it working?
But what if manifesting didn’t have to feel like hard work? Say you could know by following some simple steps that you would create a positive outcome and you could magically and easily manifest?
What if three simple steps could shift everything?
The first step is to focus on yourself.
You might be wondering—how will focusing on yourself bring a new career, a successful business, a house, a car, a new partner, or a six-figure income?
Quite easily.
"Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do." — Brené Brown
The First Pillar is Self-Love
The more you focus on practicing self care, the more you will notice a shift in your reality. If you make self-love your focus, then one loving action creates an opportunity for another and then another. Showing yourself self-love is a proactive gesture and shows that you value yourself and that you are worthy of having all that you desire. This concept alone is enough to change your frequency.
Prioritising self-care, self-nurture, and self-love creates space for personal growth and this opens doors to opportunities you never thought possible. When you take care of your needs, you expand your mindset, see new possibilities, and ultimately experience more happiness. This raises your vibration, aligning you with positive outcomes.
The Second Pillar is Authenticity
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." — Oscar Wilde
This is the key to true alignment. We are all here on Earth to fulfill our soul’s purpose in life using our unique gifts and talents. When you find your purpose, you naturally elevate yourself to your own unique path.
Embrace who you are and your individuality.
Being your authentic self by being true to your word takes practice, but the benefits are immeasurable. When you align with your true self, opportunities will present themselves effortlessly. Think about where your gifts lie and what you feel passionate about. What is your purpose in life? As you take steps in this direction, doors will begin to open and opportunities will present themselves and then it's time to take a leap of faith. When you spend time doing what you enjoy, this brings you happiness on a higher level and is so fulfilling.
The Third Pillar is Gratitude
"When you arise in the morning, think of what a privilege it is to be alive—to breathe, to think, to enjoy, to love." — Marcus Aurelius
How often do we focus on what’s missing in our lives instead of appreciating what we have? Instead of thinking, If only I had this or that, shift your mindset to gratitude. If you think constantly about what is missing from your life, then you step into a lack mindset and then you end up manifesting more lack. Gratitude or appreciation for everything is a super attractor. When was the last time you felt truly thankful for the small things? Even everyday tasks like changing your bedding—though tedious—remind us how lucky we are to have a bed to sleep in.
So be grateful for everything.
Feeling grateful raises your vibration, making you a magnet for more positive experiences. You can’t attract abundance if you aren’t already appreciating what you have.
By focusing on self-love, authenticity, and gratitude, you align effortlessly with what you desire. Manifesting becomes less about struggle and more about allowing abundance to flow to you.
Following these three pillars create positive anchors that will ultimately bring you happiness and all that you desire.
Additional Insights for Effortless Manifestation
The Power of Surrender – By letting go of the attachment to outcomes and trusting that the universe will deliver what’s meant for you at the perfect time. Detachment reduces resistance and allows abundance to flow naturally.
Inspired Action vs. Forced Action – Manifestation isn’t passive; it requires aligned action. Tune into your intuition and take steps that feel natural and exciting rather than forced. Small, inspired actions lead to bigger results.
The Role of Subconscious Beliefs – Limiting beliefs can block manifestation. Rewiring negative thoughts through affirmations and inner work helps you align with your desires. Shifting from “I’m not good enough” to “I am worthy” changes your energetic frequency and attracts better opportunities.
If you would like help in reaching your goals and dreams, please feel free to reach out to me. I offer a FREE 30 minute discovery chat, so why not take advantage of this.
